So it's April 2021. Our city is still in Covid crisis, our province is back in lockdown, and our country's not having its finest moment of the pandemic.

I think about all these things, I write daily about lots of them, I keep most of that writing to myself.
But this page sits here, unused, taking up space on the internet...
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Sex With Steph resumes Thurs. Nov. 2, 2017!

Sunday, October 8, 2017

Please see Meetup.com to become a member of Sex With Steph or visit the

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May the 4th Be With You!

Thursday, April 27, 2017

Chips! Booze! Cheeky conversation about the forces at play in our sexual lives.

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Healthy Relationships

Friday, March 17, 2017

I'd like to tell you about the Assaulted Women's Helpline. As a service provider, I'm grateful to know they exist. They can support the folks I work with, both as a...

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Sexual Secrets

Tuesday, March 7, 2017

On Thursday, April 6, we'll be talking about Sexual Secrets. I'm pretty sure we've all got one (or several!) No one will be asked to reveal their secret(s), only to reflect...

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Toronto Oasis

Sunday, February 26, 2017

A new group has come to town! Featuring speakers, musicians and community support, Toronto Oasis offers a weekly opportunity for secular exchange. Stephanie will be...

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Oh...oooh...Orgasms!

Wednesday, February 15, 2017

All about orgasms, as they relate to solo sex, performance pressure, tissue damage, porn consumption, and our overall sexual health.

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February Blahs and other 'F' Words!

Wednesday, February 15, 2017

Do you get the blahs at this time of year? Sexual blahs?

We'll list our favourite 'F' words (maybe 'flirtation', maybe 'frisson') and find out what we need to...

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2017 Resolutions for Sex and Relationships

Monday, January 2, 2017

The Good, the Bad, and the Sexy! Join Sex With Steph on Thurs. Jan. 12 to talk about what lights you up, what shuts you down, and what you want in your sexual life this...

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TRAINWRECK rings in 2017!

Sunday, January 1, 2017

Our 4th annual New Year's Eve show at the Linsmore was our best ever! Despite all the colds this Christmas (and all the BS in American politics) and four significant losses...

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Cohen and Consent at Future Tense

Wednesday, December 14, 2016

Sexy, Seussy poetry and singing with my partner! Happy to be back onstage with Live From The Annex, now at Lee's Cave. Future Tense, Dec. 17, 2016.

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Parenting for Sexual Health: From Diapers to Dorm Room

Monday, November 28, 2016

Sexual health doesn't start in Sex Ed. It starts at home.

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"Judge rules inclusion and equity come before individual religious accommodations in public education." Hamilton Spectator

Monday, November 28, 2016

Our province's public school system continues to balance their obligation to protect all students' human rights while acknowledging each individual family's values. I spoke...

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Sex With Steph in November

Friday, November 4, 2016

Last night's inaugural session of Sex With Steph was full of brave, beautiful moments. Here's what some participants had to say:

"A wonderful, safe group to explore and...

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Sex With Steph

Thursday, November 3, 2016

Starting Nov 3, from 8-10pm, Meetup members and local folks will gather at KaZa Family Centre, 1386 Danforth, for chips and booze and cheeky conversation! Sexual health...

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Be an Askable Adult!

Friday, September 25, 2015

Today's post, 'Askable Adults', is about healthy communication, at home and school.

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Sexual Health at Home and School

Wednesday, September 9, 2015

Sexual Health at Home and School - Consent

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Women's workshop for Father's Day!

Monday, June 15, 2015

Women's workshop about men's sexual response at KaZa Family Centre, just in time for Father's Day!

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TRAINWRECK at the Linsmore!

Monday, June 15, 2015

TRAINWRECK has worked up a bunch of new tunes and the Linsmore crowd loved them on June 13th!

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Cheeky poems, Live From The Annex!

Monday, June 15, 2015

Cheeky poems, Live From The Annex!

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Rally in support of the new curriculum!

Monday, June 15, 2015

Rally at the 510 Church St. Community Centre in support of Ontario's new Health and Phys Ed curriculum.

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Most parents in Ontario want sexual health education for their kids!

Wednesday, May 6, 2015

For children who do not have access to information about human sexuality at home, I am grateful for the new approach being implemented in our provincial school system.

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What women really want for Mother's Day!

Wednesday, May 6, 2015

What women really want for Mother's Day! In this workshop for men in long-term relationships with women, we will discuss the physiology as well as the sociology of...

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Stephanie Baptist in Toronto Star

Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Stephanie, as a counsellor in sexual health, was interviewed about the new Physical and Health Education curriculum.

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Wreck the February Blahs!

Tuesday, January 27, 2015

When TRAINWRECK rolls into the Jam Factory

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Bawdy Art

Monday, January 19, 2015

Art and Sex combine for meaningful merriment at Good For Her...

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Domestic Blitz

Monday, January 19, 2015

Circus, sex toys, and scuba diving! This is what you get when...

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TRAINWRECK plays Whitby Ribfest July 12th!

Thursday, September 4, 2014

TRAINWRECK is playing the Whitby Ribfest Saturday, July 12th from 4:45-6:00pm. Bring kids, eat ribs, hear rock....

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